Life, the Universe and Everything between…

Over the last week we have all experienced a lot in this world, for my family it was the Alpha and Omega.  The Universe has really opened itself up to me or maybe I have awakened to it more, that one I am still trying to figure out. Our Family Welcomed a baby boy to the world on 8/18/15.My nephew,  Wesley was born at 7:13am and was 7lbs 14 ounces of wonder and joy. This 21inch being has no idea what he has brought with him! My husband and I went to meet him with my niece. As she was introduced to her new brother we all paid close attention to the new dynamic in our family. So excited for something new!

The next day as I returned to work, eager to show pictures and receive the abundance of congratulations of my new nephew, something else was happening in the background of our lives. I received a call from my husband that my father in law was unresponsive and they were taking him to the hospital via ambulance. That quickly,life changed again.

As I quickly raced 20 minutes to the hospital where my husband was waiting with his mother, I text my boss again telling her we have another family emergency. Before I could turn into the hospital I received another call that he had passed from my husband who was doing everything he can to not break down and be strong for his mother. We left with his watch and only memories that day, walking out of the hospital was something we did a lot with my father in law.

Serious heart problems led him to many visits which we joked with him that he was using it as a vacation. This man worked, until the very last day on oxygen 24hours he continued looking for opportunities to work and help others. As a Chef his whole life, he continued to give back to the local chapter of the Chef’s Associations. Helping children learn through the art of cooking and feeding masses of College Students his passion is still flowing through every soul he touched through his love of the Culinary Arts.

I spent the whole week watching my brother in law try to figure out the finances for my mother in law, my sister in law helping with medications and trips to the bank. My Husband there for moral support with his mother and the rest of the extended family. Family and friends reaching out with gifts of food, love and support in so many ways. I struggled to figure out where my place was right now. Do I stand back and just be there?  Is it selfish for me to worry about what I should be doing? But, where did they need me? Everyone just started doing things and I had no idea so I did just that, stood there, watching. Things started really slowing down for me while other things were just moving too fast.

Once I was able to remember to breathe and all of the tools I have been blessed to receive over the last year through my meditation practices I realized what I could do, what I am best at. Organizing people and putting them together to receive each other ! When the memorial conversation started flowing I asked if I could offer myself to put things together and things started working for me. This is how I handle death, by talking about it, writing about it, standing up in front of others to help them talk about it. Most people can’t, refuse or just do not want to understand this part of me but it has always been there. I have stood up at many funerals, memorials and other opportunities to remember and speak about the people that have touched our lives. So it came, the music, the memories and the opportunity to remember my father in law in the way he should, with love laughter and passion!

In the days following, I continued to explore my interests while on vacation. We met David Ji who we have been reading and studying over the last two years of meditation practice. I stepped up in the essential oil craze again, now realizing exactly how it can really work for myself and others. I will be writing more about these experiences later. Life moves on, we are all gods and goddesses in this universe.

Advice for Tomorrow: Never stop asking Who am I? Never stop wondering or searching. I call this Soul Hiking….How do YOU SoulHike?


P.S. It’s okay to go back to the Beginning, when necessary!


Toni from Tomorrow!

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What’s good?

Well, I am so inclined to restart this process here at Tomorrowism. This year has been time to realign, start something new in my career and practice what we preach. Being good to ourselves is not easy! If you are still out there let me know how you have been doing while I reacquaint myself with all of you again. I will be writing more about my meditation experience, share my adventure into a more holistic life through food and essential oils,leadership and an overall lifestyle change that’s been happening!



What’s good?

Toni from Tomorrow  (and yesterday )

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Today’s ism..rewiring your engine


No apologies here, I have taken some time to slow down and rewire my engine! 2015 has brought some big changes to our little family. We will have a new addition , my neice is going to be a big sister! I am being challenged more and more each day in my new job,which I love! No I dont love it everyday,who does? I do feel very blessed to be a part of something much bigger than myself everyday.

Even,with all of the changes and blessings we sometimes get a little heavy around here too. More medical challenges for our family,financial hiccups and malaise can sometimes set in and take a couple days.

We are moving towards a more condensed, lighter version of ourselves, eating healthier amd sticking to it. Making better decisions and taking more time for us to get back in flow around here. Do you have times where you know you’re getting out of flow and need to return? How do you get back and who do you bring with you?

How has 2015 started off for you? Have you made adjustments to your wires?

So many questions! I must cross my legs and close my eyes, meditate before my wires get crossed again!

Toni from Tomorrow

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Today’s ism…Yule log

Like the Yule log, it’s been a while since we have seen each other and I do apologize. Many wonderful things have been happening just in time for the New Year! New projects,recognition and so many other things we have to be most grateful towards. While we are busy spending holidays with friends,family,coworkers keep in mind that the Universe will always give you what you need if you give it time to hear you!

Happy Holidays from my family to yours!

XOXO and jolly good cheer,
Toni from Tomorrow!


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Today’s ism…attitude of gratitude!

Wow! It’s here,really here! My favorite Holiday,Thanksgiving!  I am thankful for so many things but first want to Thank each of you. I am truly grateful for those of you readers who have been coming back. I am also truly blessed for all of the new opportunities I have been given this year to help lots of people. Please share your Thanks here and lets keep paying it forward!


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Today’s ISm…showing Gratitude

How do you show your Thanks? With the Month of November bringing Thanksgiving and all of the crazy hustle and bustle of Christmas shopping and planning end of the year festivities we sometimes can lose the true meaning. This gives me such a great opportunity to share with you all of the things in which I am truly grateful for in Life! So starting out today with giving thanks to YOU and your loyalty here at Tomorrow ISm. This has truly been a beautiful friendship here and I feel so blessed to have such a wonderful community where I can express myself without regret, free of judgement. If you follow on FB then you already know that I have created a special event for YOU! Please head on over and join me and Put the Thanks in Thanksgiving!(if you are not on FB or if the moment just moves you feel free to post in the comments below)

Here is the Link!



Toni from Tomorrow!

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